The Anniversary I Forgot

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The other day I looked over at the calendar…September 15th. Not a day of note. We didn’t have any plans. But, I was surprised at the date. Not because of the date it was, but because of the date I forgot.

September 12, 2012. The day Junior was diagnosed with profound hearing loss. The day that officially began our special needs journey. The day I thought I could never forget because the grief was etched so strongly in my mind and heart. As I sat in that sterile audiologist’s office holding my sleeping infant as she went over the results of his failed hearing test, her words were unintelligible through my tears. I thought our world was over…I thought we would never be happy again.

And yet…

The five year anniversary of this life-changing date was missed. Overlooked. Forgotten. That date I thought was forever going to shape my world and become a solemn reminder of our challenges has now become “just another day.”

Being the parent of a deaf child isn’t easy. It never will be. Our days are still filled with therapies and frustrations and broken cochlear implant pieces and phone calls to specialists and insurance companies. But, they are also filled with laughter, joy, and pride. They are filled with Junior whispering in my ear that he loves me, with books and reading and singing, and with Junior telling everyone he meets that he wants to be an astronaut when he grows up so he can visit Jupiter and the Moon like any other five year old boy.

Five years ago, I never thought a day would go by when I didn’t think about the day he was diagnosed. But now, because of all the lessons we have learned along the way, like hope and perseverance, determination and gratitude, it is a day that barely gets a second thought.

Book Review: Abiding Mercy

Abiding Mercy begins 15 years ago in a grocery store in Michigan. Wealthy Roslyn Colepepper is knocked unconscious after grocery shopping (an errand typically run by the nanny), and her 18 month old daughter Adriana is abducted.

The next chapter begins in the Amish country of Northern Michigan and introduces us to Faith Pinkham. Faith is a 16 year old Amish girl who is counting down the days until she can be baptized into her Amish community, and hopefully settle down with a nice Amish boy and start a family.

Faith is content with her life. She works at the restaurant her parents own, The Amish Table, and enjoys fishing, gardening, and church functions. One rainy evening, however, she receives word that her parents have been involved in a buggy accident, and have been injured. Aside from concern over her parent’s injuries, she is required to help even more with the restaurant. Gideon has also started to volunteer in the restaurant duties, so the two of them begin spending a lot of time together and want to begin courting once Faith is baptized.

One day during a church function, however, Faith’s life is completely turned upside down, as she learns about the abducted Adriana and begins to question everything and everyone she’s ever known. Who is she? Where does she belong? Can she ever trust her friends and family again?

I enjoyed Abiding Mercy. I liked how we were following two stories at the same time–the past story of Adriana meeting up with the present story of Faith. It also gave a lot of opportunities for deep thought…how would you react if you were Faith? The parents of the abducted child? The Amish parents of Faith? Gideon? The ending seemed a little hasty, but it was satisfying. Hopefully there will be a sequel, though. I would love to learn how Faith reconciles her past and future.

*I received a copy of this book from BookLook Bloggers and the publishers. I was not required to give a positive review. All opinions are my own and have not been influenced in any way.

 

 

Grade 4 Curriculum Choices

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I can’t believe my baby is going to be a 4th grader this year. Tater turned 9 a couple weeks ago, and I’m kind of in a permanent state of denial about it. At least she still calls me “mommy” and enjoys being around me. Sigh.

It’s always so much fun to choose curriculum, so I’m excited to start the school year! Here are our curriculum choices for Tater’s 4th grade:

Bible: We are not using a formal curriculum for Bible, but will read Bible stories, study heroes of faith as well as biblical character traits.

Math: We are continuing with Horizons math this year.

Science: We enjoyed Apologia’s Exploring Creation with Astronomy last year, so this year we are using Apologia’s Exploring Creation with Chemistry and Physics. Tater’s choice…she loves doing science experiments.

Language Arts: We are doing daily Reading Comprehension worksheets, Latin Roots of English, and vocabulary.

Handwriting: No formal curriculum here either…just copywork from Robert Louis Stevenson’s A Child’s Garden of Verses.

Spelling: We have loved All About Spelling for Tater’s dysgraphia, and will be continuing with the program.

History: Last year I wrote my own World History curriculum using Living Books. We read almost 900 library books last school year and did corresponding crafts and hands on activities. I will be doing the same thing this year except with US History. I’m really excited!

Literature Read Alouds: All our read alouds correspond with our US History lessons. They will be:
-The Matchlock Gun
-Calico Captive
-Johnny Tremain
-By The Shores of Silver Lake
-Rifles for Watie
-Caddie Woodlawn

Art/Music:
We will be studying US Artists, popular time period music, and will be doing a lot of arts and crafts.

PE: Tater will continue in karate. She loves it and has shown quite an affinity.

Also, Junior will be starting Preschool work this year. We aren’t doing anything formal unless he wants to (I bought him an Apologia notebook to follow along in science), but he is already an eager learner and will be joining us for history, read alouds, and whatever else he wants!

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Book Review: Beloved Hope

Beloved Hope is the second book in Tracie Peterson’s Heart of the Frontier series. (See my review of book one, Treasured Grace).

This second book follows Hope, the middle sister of the three Flanagan girls who survived the Cayuse Massacre at the Whitman Mission in late 1847 (this story is told in book 1). Beloved Hope opens in May 1850, as Hope is wrestling with the memories of the massacre and subsequent captivity because she has been asked to testify in the trial against the Cayuse who were responsible for the deadly attack. At the mission, not only was Hope’s beau John Sager (an actual historical figure) murdered, but she was taken advantage of multiple times during the captivity.

In the two years that has passed, Hope has maintained bitterness and unforgiveness against Tomahas-the Cayuse who stole her innocence–and wants nothing but revenge. She has closed herself to friendships and other relationships, and is convinced that she is no longer capable of loving or being loved.

Army Lieutenant Lance Kenner is stationed in the Oregon City area and has been assigned to keep order during the Cayuse Trial. He meets Hope when the young woman goes to the prison where Tomahas and the other braves are being held with a gun in an attempt to kill Tomahas herself. He is intrigued by this fiery young woman, but Hope has made it very clear that she wants no part in a relationship.

Meanwhile, Lance is struggling with his own feelings of resentment and unforgiveness, and he is stunned to learn that someone close to Hope has ties to the man who killed Lance’s brother. Can Hope and Lance push aside the pain of the past and open themselves up enough to be loved? Or will their bitterness stand in the way of true happiness?

I liked this book quite a bit–it was not nearly as sad as the first book in the series, and instead focusing on hope, second chances, and forgiveness. I enjoyed getting to know Hope, rejoicing with Alex and Grace as Grace as she prepares to give birth to their first child, and watching Mercy mature into a lovely young woman. In fact, I am looking forward to the next book in the series, which I assume will follow Mercy.

I received a copy of this book from Bethany House Publishers. I was not required to write a positive review. All opinions are my own and have not been influenced in any way.

Bible Review: Kids Visual Study Bible

9780310758600, NIV Kids' Visual Study Bible, Hardcover, Full Color Interior : Explore the Story of the Bible—People, Places, and HistoryMy daughter is almost 9, so she is ready for a “meatier” Bible, with deeper study notes but she still loves the fun little inserts and bright colors of the younger kid’s Bibles. I was really intrigued with the Kids Visual Study Bible, because it seemed to have the best of both worlds. The Bible, in the NIV translation, is a study Bible that is also chock full of color illustrations and photos, maps, and cultural details of Bible times.

The side 1/3 of each page in this Bible yellow, and includes study notes written for kids to get a better understanding of the verses. The inner 2/3 of each page is the actual Scripture. The visuals in this Bible are great…it includes many lists, timelines, references, and charts and gives a clearer understanding of Bible stories.

My daughter and I were both equally impressed with this Bible. I tend to prefer the NKJV in general, but with the amount of information and commentary this Bible had, it didn’t bother me too much that it was an NIV. Just flipping through it, I really enjoyed the commentary, which gave good information at a child’s level without being too simplistic. The maps and illustrations really helped to bring the Bible alive too. My only minor complaint is that there is no verse index in the back to search for a verse using a specific word. That would have been helpful, but again, this book is well worth it for a child who has outgrown the kiddie Bibles but still wants some colorful features.

*I received a copy of this Bible from Zondervan Publishing and BookLook Bloggers. I was not required to give a positive review. All opinions are my own and have not been influenced in any way.